Quitters never win

Anecia Duffy
Anecia Duffy
I may have an illness and wear a bag but I don’t want to be labelled as the girl that’s sick.

When you are younger, you dream that you will go on holidays, buy a house, get your dream job, and meet someone special. I am living with a stoma 5 years now, almost a fifth of my life.  When I had my surgery, I had bad days mentally and physically because all those future prospects I had envisioned where slowly slipping out of reach.

People said to me, “God love you!!  You are the wee girl that’s sick, you wear one of those bags.” This made me think; I may have an illness and wear a bag but I don’t want to be labelled as the girl that’s sick, I want to be known for WHO I AM and not because of what I have.

Anyways all those things that I’ve dreamt about when I was at school, I’ve accomplished most of them to date. I’m pursuing my dream job nursing at university at the moment. This wouldn’t be possible with a positive attitude that quitters never win and winners never quit.

My life right now is the busiest it’s ever been. But as I’ve said it wasn’t always like this.  I’ve had a few hurdles to jump- some I thought where to high but with a positive attitude you get through it. I’ve had to ask for help from family, my fiancé and medical teams to get me over difficult times I’ve had recently but I’ve done it 

This blog is for all new, future and those like me who have a stoma for quite some time, that you can still achieve anything that you want to with a stoma.  It makes it an extra bit special that you’ve hit a huge milestone with your friend by your side. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, nothing to be embarrassed about. You would be on the other side of the phone for someone in your position.

Enjoy life, take each day as it comes until you feel well enough to smash all your goals 

Happy New Year

Aneica xx

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