This might sound like an obvious question that you just open the tab and empty the contents down the loo. Essentially that is true but there are obstacles that can be in the way.
At home it’s all lovely, clean and you have your routine, but when you are out what then?
I have always found it more comfortable and easy to sit further back on the toilet and empty between my legs. To avoid the fun and games with splash back, I put a sheet of toilet paper on the front of the bowl. It can have it’s problems especially if your bag is a bit gassy and it kind of pops open with the pressure first, it can get messy. The worst problems occur when you are out, either at a friends or a public toilet. Friends are usually ok except if their toilet doesn’t flush fully so then you are having to wait for it to fill again to re-flush.
But public toilets are a different kettle of fish altogether. You have no idea how clean they are, the seats are often broken so sitting back on the seat can be downright dangerous. If you are someone who kneels to empty then the cleanliness of the floor is a massive issue.
Not forgetting the automatic flushes that are placed right where you sit back , great fun mid emptying and scares the life out of you. What if there isn’t any toilet roll? What if people have pee’d over the seat or floor? Not great for those who go to toilet normally but an absolute nightmare for an ostomate.
I have tried standing, but that doesn’t work for me , I feel too high up and might not control the bag empty process neatly, leaving a mess. Kneeling is a no no for me, my knees wouldn’t take it and I wouldn’t get back up without help ( and the floor could be revolting). So it is sitting back or nothing , therefore I have to prepare by having cleaning wipes ( and a magnifying glass haha) checking for splits in the seat ( ouch) and wonky seats, not to mention the more sinister items. If it is one of the really nasty toilets, it is a question of either placing loo roll round the seat to sit on, or waiting to find a better toilet somewhere else.
I am thankful that I haven’t had to change my bag in a public toilet ( except my work one but that doesn’t count) as there are often no shelves, no hooks and no mirrors. Does anyone have a different way of emptying their bag? Or any tips to help make things easier?
If you happen to own, look after or use said toilets, spare a thought for us ostomates and make sure they are really clean when you leave them. We are cleaner than most non stoma people.
If you think ostomates emptying our bags was easy and problem free, think again.
That's a really great question Clare. Do you use an accessible cubicle so you have more space?